Showing posts with label Daughter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Daughter. Show all posts

Monday, December 24, 2012

Father's Graduation Letter to Daughter

First, congratulations on completing your college degree! I'm impressed with the determination, drive and hard work you have demonstrated during your college days. Good job!

Every day marks the beginning of the next day of your life but there are certain days that represent major milestones. This is one of them. You are now faced with an almost infinite number of choices as you look forward to whatever you'll be doing and wherever you'll be going next. There is no right or wrong path to take in life, as all journeys can be great ones. It is you who'll ultimately determine how interesting, fulfilling and rewarding the journey is, not the road you take.

Having said that I encourage you to take some risks, especially early on in life when you perhaps have more flexibility, and consider exploring different directions and ventures that may not be so obvious and common. If your ambition is to be like everyone else - nothing wrong with that - then you should follow the conventional path in life. If you want to try something different you have to throw conventional wisdom out the window and take what most people would characterize as risks or even irresponsible choices. This could be anything from spending a couple of years working somewhere in China, starting your own company, joining a sub-Saharan help organization, going to grad school in New Zealand, joining a two year long oceanic expedition or working in Switzerland or Norway for a few years. The list is endless.

Father's Graduation Letter to Daughter

Life is made up of a lot of small journeys and you want to strive to make them as enjoyable, interesting and rewarding as possible. When you embark on a journey you never know what will happen along the way and where it'll end up, which, at least to me, is incredibly fascinating. Regardless of the path you choose I know you'll be fine. But try to pursue something you really want to do although it is not always easy to know what that is. One piece of advice: never let money be the primary motivator for what you decide to do. Success is not measured by your job, your education, how much money you have or what kind of car you drive. Success is determined by who you are and how you lead your life.

I could spend a lot of time providing advice but I'm sure you'll figure it all out along the way, which is the way life is. But I'll share a few things that I have found of great help and could perhaps have done more of during certain parts of my life:

-Treat all people with respect and be nice to everyone - no exceptions
-Always maintain the integrity of your personal character - it defines who you are
-Have lots of good friends and actively cultivate your friendships
-Don't expect too much from others - expect a lot from yourself
-Do what is right even if it is difficult - it is always tempting to take the path of least resistance
-Don't worry about the past or about things you can't affect - it only makes you miserable
-Never criticize and complain - it doesn't require skills, intelligence or experience
-You have more power and abilities than you think you have - yes, you can move mountains
-Do more than expected at work, at home - don't expect pats on your back - rewards will eventually come
-Never be afraid to tell the truth even if it is bad news - hiding problems only make them worse
-Be an independent thinker and make up your own mind - lead, don't follow
-All relationships require lots of work from both parties - it's never easy - mutual trust and respect is key
-Stay healthy
-And remember: life is too important to be taken seriously

I could go on and on but enough preaching. I know you'll figure it all out.

Again, great job on your degree and enjoy your journeys in life!

Father's Graduation Letter to Daughter
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Sunday, June 24, 2012

Different Types of Father Daughter Relationships

As you take a look at this list of fathers see if you can relate to any of these father and what impact it has played in your life; maybe still today in a positive or negative way.

Abusive father

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An abusive father is a father who passes his limits, whose limits are either not known or not important for him and his daughter and verbally and physical abusive to his daughter.

Different Types of Father Daughter Relationships

Controlling father

A controlling father is a father who thinks that he is in charge and that he knows more and that he needs to control this daughter because she will make a mistake and would do much wrong to herself and the family so it is best he controls her.

Over-protective father

The over protective father does not have confidence in his daughter in a way he perceives that he is helping her by protecting her because he thinks that she may do wrong so to make things easier and faster he over protects and in doing so he holds back her development and keeps her dependent on him.

Directive father

This father believes he knows what is right for his daughter ever since she has been small and so he continues to direct her because she will make lots of mistake and will not find her way.

Doubting father

This father doubts his daughter when ever she comes to him because he has difficulty in trusting her and her ability to do things for her.

Analytic father

With an analytic father he does not show his emotions for emotions to him does not has a place when comes to making a decision for his daughter. He thinks that with statistics it will prove what is best for his daughter.

Supportive father

A supportive father is a father who feels that he has taught his daughter enough and that he is there to support her with what she want to do only when she ask for it.

Absent father

An absent father is a father who thinks that because he works outside of the home that his daughter should understand this and that he is allowing himself to not to be a part of her life because he thinks that he is doing enough for her by providing material things.
The absent father thinks that he is bringing in the money and that is enough and the education and the emotion difficulties that his daughter has, she will get the help from her mother.

The know it all father

With a know it all father it is difficult to have a discussion with her father because he knows it all and that he will leave no room for sharing so his daughter will feel she has no relationship with her father.

The passive father

The passive goes along to the point that he has difficulty in making a decision because he does not want to hurt or make a stand on what he thinks because he may not feel love and more rejection.

Avoidance father

The avoidance father have a tendency to avoid the things that are important he may change the subject every time something important needs to be discuss with his daughter.

Different Types of Father Daughter Relationships

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